Do you have to be a virgin to become a priest?
No. One of the greatest saints in the Church’s history, St Augustine, took a long time to come to terms with the requirement of chastity. He famously said, “Chastity, yes, Lord, but not just yet!’
It is generally recommended that a person considering a call to the priesthood has been sexually inactive for at least 18 months before they are admitted to seminary or religious life. This is wise, as it tests a person’s ability to sustain a life of chastity over a prolonged period of time, which, of course, priesthood demands.
Most popular questions
- I feel I have a specific charism to youth outreach. Can I live this charism out as a priest, or must I follow the charism of the order I join?
- Why are there so many different religious organisations?
- What can I do as a priest that I cannot do as a layperson working for a charity or NGO?
- Are religious orders different from one another? If so, how are they different?
- What is a deacon and how is it different than a priest?
- If I become a priest, will I be living with mostly elderly men?
- What does discernment mean when we’re talking about vocation?
- I’m very attracted to women. Will this pass with time and training or will I always be tempted?
- What if as a priest I need to take time out to care for a relative or family member?
- The idea of public speaking is very challenging to me and I avoid it if possible. How can I be a priest when I hate public speaking?